My name is Chindah Chindah, I am Life, Marriage and Performance Coach For the past 8 years, I have worked with couples of various races and backgrounds: White, Black, etc to help them create strong, stable, and satisfying marriages through my 90 Day Marriage Satisfaction Program ( The Love Mastery Framework Program) in 121 coachings, group coaching, conferences presentations,  workshops etc. I help couples to create pleasurable and satisfying love-making lives with their spouses.

I’ve witnessed a failing marriage restored, 15 years of separation restored, divorce cancelled, light bulb moment of transformation happens. But I didn’t discover this framework used to change many marriages today by myself.

 It was discovered after I lost my elder sister through an abusive marriage. Let me share the story with you very briefly.

She got married as most people do but, it was very toxic and unbearable until she became sick. Her approachable and warm personality seems a bit unwelcoming and charming as usual. She became withdrawn and was hardly seen in public. My family became worried and concerned about her welfare.

My family realised she was being abused, emotionally traumatized, and isolated from what she loved. Her illness got worse and unfortunately,  she fell seriously ill even more and eventually, suffered a severe stroke, that left her almost completely immobile and paralyzed.

She suffered greatly due to the deterioration of her health and on a quiet windy evening, after spending time with a few of the family members, she slept and that was it. It felt like that was a story and not a reality. She was rushed to the hospital and the medical professionals and hospital staff tried to resuscitate her, but it was too late. My beloved sister was gone and gone forever.

It was a sad day for me and my family. I was so sad, overcome by grief, and very bitter about how a great lady with dreams can just go like that. She was so good to me and supported me in many ways. The family felt a huge sense of loss and my father particularly didn’t take it so well, because he was over 90 years old when my step-sister died. Hearing that my sister had passed, causing him even more pain and all he wanted was to die as well. It was a very hard time for my family and for me, it changed everything.

Losing my sister triggered a spark inside of me and I wanted to know:

• What can make a marriage work?
• How can two different personalities create a great relationship that mutually benefits each person?
• What are the skills and knowledge required to build a successful marriage?
• Are we not supposed to have a happy marriage and live-in peace with each other?
• How can two different person handle conflicts and still be lovable and live side by side in great joy and happiness?
• What should be our minimum criteria before marriage and while in marriage, what ate the daily habits required to build a fulling marriage?

These questions need to be answered and I wanted to know it for myself.

My mum’s state and my step-sister’s death drove me into studying humans, and personality types, doing research on various books, and case studies done by experts in the field of Human Medicine, Psychology, Theology, Family Life, and Marriage.

I Assessed, analyzed, and deduced conclusions on failed and successful marriages of all kinds, including secular and religious marriages. I literally studied everything relating to the secrets of building happy and satisfying relationships. I did this with all passion and meticulousness, to know what couples can do to be happy in a relationship regardless of their individual differences.

The outcome of my curious mind and hunger for answers resulted in the creation of :

HOW TO CREATE AND MAINTAIN A SATISFYING MARRIAGE DAILY IN 90 DAYS 

(THE LOVE MASTERY FRAMEWORK PROGRAM).

This program answered all my questions and I have personally used this framework to build a loving and lasting marriage with my wife for the past 14 years. So, I know the program works because I have used it personally and my clients continuously see results with the same framework as well.

This personality discovery and alignment transformational online course is just one of the courses that make up the  90-Day Marriage Satisfaction Program.

I am a sexual satisfaction enthusiast and activist as well. I am enjoying my sexual life without shame at all because it is my marital birthday right? I can’t be married and still be single in my marriage at the same time. Hence, I will show you how to start enjoying a satisfying intimate life without being ashamed.

Ok, let’s talk about intimacy in marriage a bit

Lovemaking is amazing and is indeed a gift especially when it’s expressed between couples who share mutual emotions.

However, this doesn’t mean every couple gets to enjoy it and it’s likely that you currently fall under this category and is the very reason you’re on this page or…maybe not….maybe you’re just a mature single who is preparing for marriage and would like to be informed in other to avoid intimacy discrepancies when you eventually get married.

Whichever is the case, you just stumbled on the complete guide to giving and receiving personalized intimacy pleasure without feeling used.

Now, let’s get started:

I’d like you to understand that great intimacy starts from the mind. It’s as much psychological as it is physical and the moment you realise this, the easier it becomes for you to see intimacy from a different perspective. It’s not just some activity that you need to check off your bucket list or perform as your duty to your spouse. It is also not just for procreation but in all, it is a sensual expression of your innate desires.

We all have desires regardless of age and you can always keep your sexual life burning hot but as with making anything work, you have to put some conscious effort into giving and receiving that intimate pleasure that you so much desire. 

Welcome to the club!I